I have said many of times throughout the years that, "It's gonna take me living the life that people want for them to listen to me" and only just now have I processed that God knows that. There's many people out there that have this saying of how you should never accept advice from someone doing worse than you, which just hit me, is very WORDLY. As a Christian, the bible gives us many examples of people with extraordinary gifts and powers who have used their gifts in VERY LOW